Here are some basic first date tips to help you get ready for your date:
Apparel, is, of course, the trickiest of them all, you need to look gorgeous, but as if it took no effort to achieve this look. Well, I have to break the bad news to you – no one can look terrific with no effort. Even those seemingly slobby rock starts to invest hundreds of dollars in their designer’s shabby jeans, and in their well-trimmed bristles.

On the other hand, you shouldn’t go over the edge on your first date, or you’ll send the message of over-enthusiasm, which may scare your date away.

So what to do?
First of all, make sure you are clean and that you smell good. Don’t surround yourself with a scented cloud, but it’s a worthy cause to use that expensive perfume that collects dust in your closet. When it comes to choosing an outfit, you have to follow one basic – feel comfortable.

You don’t have to wear the most brilliant and expensive item in your wardrobe. The main idea is comfort, and when you feel comfortable you are relaxed and at your best.

Here’s a tip to women:
Surprisingly, men usually don’t care what they’re wearing: you are most attractive when you feel attractive. Therefore, you should wear only the things that make you feel this way and not tiny dresses (or anything else for that matter) that might make you feel too self-aware and uncomfortable.

Finally – do not change anything too drastic in your appearance before the date. When you got yourself a date, your partner already liked the way you look, so don’t try to change your appearance to impress your date.

Be natural and relaxed, and you’ll be at your best.

Here are the dos and don’ts and proper first date etiquette:
When you go out on a date, especially if it is your first date, groom yourself properly before you go out. Wear comfortable, clean, and good clothes. Clean your toenails and fingernails, iron your clothes, wear a nice watch, and clean everything that your first date can notice. Remember, you are building the foundation of the outcome of your date. The impression starts here. This basic first date etiquette on cleanliness is a must. Flirt with your date. Teasing her and making her laugh are also parts of first-date etiquette. Also, laugh at your date’s jokes. Humor can make your date feel comfortable with you. It is also nice to hug her as soon as you meet her. A little physical touch can be a good etiquette on your first date.

First date etiquette also suggests that you should have a stimulating conversation with your date. There is no better first date than learning how to talk. Do act like a gentleman to your date like open doors for her. And if you are the lady, act like one. Complementing your date once in a while is a flattering first date etiquette. Tell me where you will go and finally relax and have fun.

Keeping these proper first date etiquettes in mind assure you of a higher chance of getting a second date, but that’s not all. You should know what you should not do on a date. Here are some: Avoid talking about religion and politics. Your date might have other views on these matters. It is not good first date etiquette to look around while your date is talking. It might appear that you are not interested. Focus your attention on your date. Never talk about yourself too much. Never talk about your past relationships as it is not proper first date etiquette. Another secret is sharing stories and listening intently. Don’t make any offensive jokes. Don’t be rude. Also, it is not good first date etiquette to pretend to be someone. Be punctual on your first date. Don’t argue with her. Keep it easy.

Staying cool and calm is a good first date etiquette.
With this first date etiquette on your mind, you should be ready to take your date out for the first time. But there are other things you can consider to keep your date yours. One secret is to keep her wanting for more. The date should be short and meaningful. A romantic dinner should do because, in that setting, you can truly impress your date with your proper first date etiquettes. Keep her hanging. Make her clueless about your next step. Give snap judgment that you have feelings toward your date. But keep your first date etiquette. Bring your date to her house. But don’t tell me that you like her or you love her. A simple phrase like “I had a great time” will do or “I was a pleasure to meet you” can be an alternative. Remember, don’t mention directly to your date’s face the phrase “So, when can we go out again. Instead, “can I call you again?” is more appropriate first date etiquette. First dates should not always lead to bed.

One thing more: “BE SAFE.”

Preparation

Before going out on your first date, you should write down a few questions you could ask your date in case the conversation will get stuck. People who go often on dates usually know by heart their list of questions, and they draw them out at the correct moment with great skill. You might need to get some practice, but there’s no better time to start practicing than today!

Here are some first date questions:

1. What do you do for a living?
2. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Are you close to each other?
3. Did you travel? Where and when?
4. What are your aspirations and dreams?
5. Do you practice any kind of art?

The most important thing about asking these first date questions is that they allow your date to talk about him/herself, and teach you more about the person sitting in front of you.

I suggest that on first dates you should avoid asking your date about previous relationships. If you must ask something in the subject, I suggest asking your date what does he/she look for in a relationship or what kind of relationship they are looking for right now.

Compliments

Every person likes to be flattered, especially on first dates when the self-confidence is very low, and you are both feeling very nervous. Complimenting your date may break the ice, make the other person feel more confident and comfortable, and also add some bonus points to your date’s opinion about you. Make sure that your compliments are personal, honest, and convincing, and not a cheesy sentence you cite from an Italian movie, which will only make you lose your credibility and your charm.

Skydiving

I haven’t tried this out for a first-date idea yet, but it seems like it would be great (provided neither of you is afraid of heights). It’s exhilarating and standing together at the door of a plane about to jump out at several thousand feet has a romantic appeal that not many other things can match. Call your local municipal airport to see if they have any skydiving instructors.

Hookah Cafes

If you’re not one of the enlightened who enjoy middle eastern food and hookah, then you should give it a try. It might not be a good option for the health-conscious, but for the rest of us, it makes an excellent first date. Hookah cafes are usually bustling places with a laid-back and cozy atmosphere and are a great place to smoke a hookah, enjoy some coffee and have a nice conversation. This works especially well for college students as there are usually many cafes nearby.

Art Conventions/Galleries

One of my favorite places to have a first date is at the monthly art walk they have here through the downtown area. Artists and vendors get together and line the streets. Musicians play their music for you as you walk around and take in the artwork. It works wonders for anyone who can appreciate art.

Live Comedy

Another astounding option for first dates is local comedy clubs. There are a handful of really excellent ones in my area featuring both professional and amateur local comedy acts. This is a great way to break the ice, with some laughs.

Wine Tasting/Tours

If you live somewhere close to vineyards taking a tour, or going to a wine tasting make excellent first dates (as long as you’re 21+). A few good wines and good conversation tucked away on a vineyard seems peaceful and has worked wonders for me in the past.

Scuba Diving

If you are fortunate enough to live near the beach snorkeling or scuba diving make great date activities. Follow a romp in the ocean with a nice seaside dinner, and you have the makings of romance.

Poetry Readings/Book Signings

Poetry readings make great first dates, and if you’re the adventurous type, you can even whip up a peace to read your date at the reading. Talk about a way to score some points! Book signings are also great even if you’re not really into books. You can enjoy coffee and conversation with your date and often enjoy a dramatic reading from the author.

The agony of the first date begins when you try to decide what to do. The conversation often becomes bogged down right here- you do not want to choose a date that the other person will hate, nor do you want a generic date that anyone could have dreamed up. Some safe ideas are the old standby’s- a night at the movies, dinner in a restaurant with a few options (nothing too specific or risqué like sushi or Indian yet), a day in the park. If you play your cards right, the conversation should lead you to a point where you both find out interesting facts about each other. It will then serve two advantages- the first is that you have a curiosity about each other, the second is that it allows planning and getting a set time for the second date. This date is great as it allows for a demonstration of your listening abilities and the opportunity to expand your dating options into other safe areas.

Choose a date that will allow you alone time without adding the burden of too much privacy. This will allow you both to feel comfortable and keep the conversation flowing. Your first date should also include some good conversation starters. This is why the movies and perhaps a dessert or coffee afterward are a good idea. You can go to the theater, and both of you can decide on the movie., Afterwards, the movie itself should provide ample fodder for conversation.

There are several signs that the date is going well. One of these is laughter- if you are both laughing, the odds are very high that you are having a good time. There is nothing more rewarding than female laughter on a date; it means that you are in the door of approval. Don’t overdo it and don’t even try to play for laughs. Understated humor is the best way to go. Time seeming to fly by is another good indicator of a successful date, as we never have enough time when we are enjoying ourselves.

There are some suicidal moves and places when it comes to first dates. Bars immediately spring to mind. Many bars are filled with juvenile-minded people (mostly young men) seeking to prove their manliness to a public that is in no need of convincing by looking for fights. If you happen to be a big guy, you will present an immediate target. This will inevitably result in a no-win situation. Fights are ridiculous behavior for an adult to engage in. Nevertheless, you may be forced into a situation where one cannot be avoided. There are contingent consequences, including a possible loss of respect from your date and even charges. Bars also imply heavy drinking, and your date may think you are trying to get her drunk to take advantage. If you both find out that you enjoy dancing, try to go to one of the higher-class watering holes in your area. Otherwise, avoid bars altogether on the first date.